Sunday, September 28, 2008

An emotional September......

The week of September 8th started off really great! It was homecoming week and Monday was Hawaiian day. Rhonda and Adrian look too cute..... love the coconut bra, Adrian....
Then, Mrs. Bass came up to my room to tell me Adam was there and I needed to go and see him in the office. My heart raced and I knew whatever it was, it couldn't be good news... I thought about Rebecca driving back from CEC... I just about couldn't get my legs to make it down the stairs and to the office... that is when I found out my Grandmother had passed away. She died of a heartache while she was sleeping... It is really hard to believe she is gone. I loved her so very much... I know she is in a better place and I know that we all would love to pass on the way she did... no pain and just to go to sleep and had lived a long and happy life... it was just very sudden and I had just seen her a few weeks before and she was just a spring chicken, you know...
The flowers at the funeral home were beautiful - Avril, this is the one you had sent, it was right by her casket. I miss her so....

This is Aunt Georgie - she is my grandmother's aunt. She was my Grandmother's mother's sister. She is 92, I believe.. or maybe she said that she was 92 when they took her driver's license and that was two years ago... she still lives by herself and she kept complaining that people didn't need to talk so loud to her just because she was old... she said, "I am old, not deaf.." I apparently have good genes... she just the sweetest spitfire I have ever seen.. She said, "your Grandmother just bought that new beautiful house and everything..."


I made a picture book of all my visits to see my Grandmother...It was nice to pass around at visitation... having a lot of family there really helped...and we are a really huggy loving family and I like that about our family....



Here is my Aunt Mary Lee, my Grandmother's sister who lives in Florida. We made plans for me to come in December. Her daughter Judy and her have such a good mother daughter relationship... I have wonderful women to look up to in my family too!!




This is my cousin, Hannah.... her mom and my mom are sisters... we have grown up sharing holidays and summer visits together.... she is so smart (and tall... I am 5' 8" for goodness sakes..) smart and pretty... more good genes






Becca, Madison, and Jessi, get cold at the luncheon and all try to get into Adam's suit coat...





Hannah and Tripp.... brother and sister... my first cousins.... Tripp is working on his PhD at Berkley... definately the smart gene.....


This was such a bitter sweet day.... family all together that love each other and loved my Grandmother... but the sadness of losing her... it was a roller coaster of emotions...




My Nat with Bridgett and Madison....







I stop to take a picture with my grandmother's sister and brother and sister-in-law... I plan to keep visiting Hartsville, SC and will now stay with my Aunt Dot and Uncle Happy who live right down the street from where my Grandmother lived....



This is my Grandmother's best friend Noma.... she is a wonderful lady... My Grandmother had many many good girlfriends. She taught me how girlfriends are an essential part of a woman's life...





I came back home in time to go to the homecoming game.... I sat with Rachel and her two girls.. they are so precious!!!


I got to hold the little one.... it made me think about life and how death and birth are all a part of life... and so Grandmother passed on and this little one has come and taken her place... and that is how God intended it to be..... I was glad I decided to go to the game - God really used that time to speak to me!




Hey Erin, Ethan has really grown... what are you feeding you future line backer... he slept through most of the game and I snapped this one right before he dozed off... maybe football isn't his thing..... ha!




I had to go find Jessi when it was time to leave in the Middle School area..... she is so cute with her school spirit :)



Saturday night, I go with some of my good buddies and have a great dinner... Adam was working - he was missed - but I was glad that I could come stag and still enjoy good conversation and great food ... at Andre's ...


Another moment when God really spoke to me was at church on Sunday after Grandmother passed.... it was a different birth... a rebirth.... Tony was baptised at church on Sunday... it was so cool to be there - God is so Awesome - score for the home team!!



The after school gang!! They are so much fun and make me smile every day after school!! It is the goofy part of the day when we all have had a long day at school and need to just be goofy and watch some good youtube or play old Bon Jovi tunes.... I get to hear about their school days - I am glad my room is the hang out room :)


Becca and Bryce... hangin' out at the church before band practice... aren't they a cute couple... Becca just giggles when he is around...how sweet....



Jessi has gone all out for her friend Elle who has a volleyball game at school today.... Jessi is such a cool kid that she can show her school spirit and not care about what other's think... she made the shirt and headband all by herself... I was very impressed!!

Before the game on Friday... Go Madras!!


These are my "farewell to summer decor" pictures...... Jessi and I made our summer themed wreath together this summer and then decorated the house in a beach theme and used the shells from our trips to St. George from the past 3 years....




Shells and framed pictures all over the house of the beach..... I LOVE THE BEACH!!!!











Another bitter sweet day.... Nat and I walked in the Vasculitis Walk that started 3 years ago in remembrance of our friend Keesha who died from a vasculitis disease. Keesha was a family friend and she will always hold a special place in my heart!! The day was a nice day for the walk and Nat and I got some quality sis time that we don't get us often as we should... and a good day to remember Keesha....


On Monday, I was at the gym and I got a call from Becca. She said, " mom, I have been in a wreck ..come now" I was luckily right around the corner and was there in just minutes.... when I saw her car, my legs went to mush... the whole time I stood beside her and trying to be strong and take care of the situation and just so glad that she was okay, my legs just shook under my sweatpants... they just shook uncontrollably... I was numb... she refused to go to the hospital and said she was fine... the guy in the other car was also fine but he did go by ambulance for whiplash...


It wasn't until we got back to my mother-in-law's house that it sunk in... I had to sit down and just had a good cry.... what a scary night... we ended up taking her on in to the emergency room and she had fractured her hand and the place on her knee was not broken, so we were glad about that....


I am so glad that she is okay.... when I look at these pictures, it still makes me tear up....


My spirit girl is at it again... she volunteered to make the spirit stick for the pep rally.... so that meant I had also been volunteered... it turned out right cute....



Adam and I took off this weekend for Huntsville, Alabama to visit Scott and Beth, Adam's sister and brother-in-law. They bought us tickets to the Big Spring Jam and we listened to some really good bands... here we are at Buckcherry....



We had a really good time chillin' and just getting away for a few days.... we got to see their new house, which is beautiful and just hang out....


After Buckcherry, we head over to another stage to watch, Styx.... next year we are planning to come back and take the girls!!



This weekend was museum week, so we got into the NASA museum for free - too cool!! I was so excited!! I love stuff like this - and Scott works there and was the perfect guide!! He is an engineer for NASA and his boss's picture is up on the wall in the museum - she is a woman astronaut.... I am telling you...... way cool!!




Kodak moment shot.....
Ginger, can you tell me what I am really thinking......



Thank you, Beth and Scott for an Awesome trip!! We really had a great time!!



I took some pictures of my Halloween decorations - what I replaced all of my seashells with.... I love decorating for the different seasons.... notice there are three brooms hung by the front door..one for each of us....Hah!









September has a been such an emotional month... one minute I am sad and crying, the next minute I am happy and crying, another minute I am laughing... and every emotion in between... I am even more thankful now, for my family and for my friends. That is what life is about... God's love for us and His will for us to love each other -







































































































Sunday, September 7, 2008

A toast to friends, football,the man bus, and chores..

(My pic.s somehow are out of order this week..but uploading them takes so long.. I am just going to make it work...)
Say Cheese, Harriet and Monte! That morning Harriet and I were sweating at Boot Camp together, and now we get to dress up for a party...Yeah!! Adam and I went to a "Summer's End Party" at Carla's house in Summergrove. The party was a lot of fun and so very nice. The catering and music and fun with friends...you just can't beat that!!
Here is Carla ( another bootcamper), Michelle, and Joy cuttin' a rug to AC/DC.... Joy, as usual, got the party started and had us all join her on the dance floor... Go Joy!! Carla's friends would come up and ask me, "are you a boot camp girl?" It was kinda funny... and I would get to say..."yes, I am a boot camp girl" Boot Camp Girls Rock!!

Here is my new best friend, Michelle. I met her at the party... she thought I was her age and about fainted when I told her I had two teenage girls... she is 28... she totally made my night and she was a lot of fun to hang out with too!!


I even got Mr. Westbrook to dance with me for a song :) I love my honey!!



This was my favorite couple of the night!! Adam and I had so much fun hanging out with these two... isn't she one glowing "boot camp girl"


Joy drags Rick out on the floor... aren't they just the cutest!! Another hot "boot camp girl"






We went to the first Madras Middle School football game. Becca gets a picture with Mrs. Pitts...I used to work at Madras and Mrs. Pitts called Becca her "little buddy". She still has pictures and cards that Becca made for her when she was little displayed in her classroom. Becca loves Mrs. Pitts and was glad to see her :)






Here is my sweet pea!! "Let's get a little bit louder!!"



Larry, Curly, and Mo pose for a picture with our very own Madras Eagle!!


Here is a great picture of my other two children.......


Jessi and Mrs. Henson, the coach.... she has been GREAT!! Jessi just adores her....



Adam has been working on his Smoke Diver Bus all week... and we had to follow him over to one of the fire stations to put it in the bay for the new paint job on the top to dry.... it had no tail lights and we took some serious back roads... what I do for Mr. W.... It's a man thing....and I don't even attempt to understand it...there are some things there are better left a mystery..



He is so proud of his bus... Bless His Heart... the top did look good and the rest should be painted this week... I can't wait to see the finished result...


Friday night, we stayed home and had Janet, Madison, and Bryce over for a game of "Apples to Apples" Mr. W was at the fire station. Bryce was so outnumbered, but he was a really good sport about it.... I consider him lucky, really...




We laughed so hard that night - I can't think of a better way to spend my Friday: sitting around a table with my girls and with people that we care about laughing over a silly card game... if you haven't ever played this game, you need to... a good time was had by all....




On Saturday afternoon, I set out to do the thing I really dreaded.... wash the dogs. Right after I finished, a long time friend of the family stopped by to visit, Judy. She was spending the weekend with my mom and I was so glad to see her!! Not until I went through these pictures did I realize what a mess I was... She hasn't seen me in years and years... and this is what I looked like...oh well... Judy, on the other hand, looked really good - she got younger since the last time I saw her... really....



Here is my Sammy after her got his Bath... He smells good - He has been doing so much better with his leg. Sammy was injured this summer(long story)... he was able to get down and back up the stairs for his bath... I was so pleased!! My baby with nine lives...

Bo got a bath too... he is so happy after his bath!! After I bathed them, Jessi (who wants a new envy phone and is logging in hours worked for it) took a long time and did a great job: blow drying and brushing them, brushed their teeth, cleaned their ears and gave them a "paw-i-cure" complete with paw wax to smooth and sooth their pads and I trimmed their nails... This smile is Bo's trick he does to get you to pet him longer on his belly... he will smile for you to pet him longer... he is such a Ham .... just like my other 3 children....